【有人聊】你印象中的我vs我眼中的自己(残障历程)

【有人聊】你印象中的我vs我眼中的自己

来源：残障历程作者：残障历程 2022.01.12 16:09 浏览1552次

有人聊

摘要：在这个社会上，很多人并不认为残障是一种美，但事实是我们是美丽的，每个人都有独特的美丽。残障人士也可以很时髦，很华丽，很闪耀，在我眼里，我就是最美的。

【有人聊】你印象中的我vs我眼中的自己

作者：残障历程

来源：残障历程

标签：有人聊

摘要：在这个社会上，很多人并不认为残障是一种美，但事实是我们是美丽的，每个人都有独特的美丽。残障人士也可以很时髦，很华丽，很闪耀，在我眼里，我就是最美的。

从小就被教育，要关爱帮助残疾人。在力所能及的时候，你一直在这样去做。

可是，有时候你会发现，为什么有时会遭遇拒绝甚至是对方的反感，于是，你特别想知道是不是你的助残技巧还不够娴熟，是不是要接受什么培训？是不是你要专门学一下，如何与残疾人打交道？

这个视频，能够给你答案！

点击播放按钮可观看视频，视频时长2分48秒。

你印象中的我vs我眼中的自己

I feel so blessed to able to just live my life and have people be motivated by it.

我是多么幸运，我能用自己喜欢的方式去生活，并鼓舞了很多人。

I have a spinal cord injury and so when I was seeing people roll by, that is what I am going to look like.

我是一名脊髓损伤人士，所以成了现在这副模样。

I think I always knew I was different. I knew other kids can hear and I can't.

我想我一直都知道我与众不同，我知道其他孩子都能听见，而我不能。

I was born with spina bifida,so I've been parlyzed my whole life and it's the only life. I know I had to kind of grow into learning I was different.

先天性脊柱裂让我一直处在一个瘫痪的状态。在这有且只有一次的人生里，我要学会接纳自己的与众不同。

My biggest insecurity is my legsSo I decided hey if that's my biggest insecurities and I am going to start a jean life and all of the pictures are based around my jeans and my legs and other people's legs and that's where I realize that it's okay to be different.Because once you embrace it,the entire world changes.

我最大的不安感是我的腿。所以我想，如果那是我最大的不安，我就去拍摄一个牛仔裤系列的广告硬照，不同人的腿和牛仔裤呈现在图片上，有我自己的，也有其他人的。从这里我意识到不一样也没关系。因为当你拥抱不同，整个世界都变得不一样了。

People usually...they don't know how to react to me a lot of times. So like I'll make little jokes like, "Hey calm down, it's ok. I'll be ok."

人们通常，嗯，他们绝大多数时候不太知道如何和我互动。这时我经常会开些小玩笑，像是"嘿，淡定，没事，我没事哈"。

I would have people treat me as if I wasn't really there I would have people treat me like they don't want anything to do with me and perhaps It's because they were scared and didn't know any other reponse.

人们对我视若无睹，看着好像根本不想和我有一些交谈，但那也许是他们有点恐慌，也不知道该如何与我互动。

One of my favorite things is when I am out of public and I have all my girls with me all in chairs who are all gorgeous and we literally love when we see heads just turn.

我最开心的事情是当我出门在外，和我的轮椅姑娘们一起。她们都很漂亮。我们真的很爱转头去看彼此（做出转头姿势）。

Society doesn't correlate disability and being attractive.We are beautiful people.Everyone is beautiful in their own way.But we can be stylish.We can be gorgeous and stuning fabulous as I like to say because yes I see myself as being fabulous.

在这个社会上，很多人并不认为残障是一种美，但事实是我们是美丽的，每个人都有独特的美丽。残障人士也可以很时髦，很华丽，很闪耀，就像我经常说的那样。因为，在我眼里，我就是最美的。

Being a dancer you know once a dance they're always a dancer. I didn't stop so I would go out to the clubs and I would get my booty on and I was supprise by how guys what approach can be like hey you're hot and they wouldn't say you're still hot.They would say you're hot.

作为一个舞蹈家，一日舞者，终身舞者。我依旧会去俱乐部跳舞。我挺惊讶的，过来与我互动的人会对我说，你很火辣。他们对我说的不是你仍然很火辣，他们言下之意是觉得现在的我很火辣。

There is the black and white there is the bad and there is the good so as long as you're focusing on the good,then the bad just seems come out.

凡事都有两面性，有好就有坏。只要你能专注于好的那一面，坏的就会自然而然不见了。

The way we're only given one life and you've got to be proud of it.

每个人都应该为能来到这个世界上而感到骄傲。

We're in both couple moves

你看，我都激动得跳起了舞（得意自信地秀了一段舞）。