【女性】残障女性性感的秘密
在很多人眼中，包括我们残障伙伴自己看来，残障的身体，是与性感绝缘的。甚至，我们有时候觉得是它让我们感到羞耻，成为我们痛苦的来源，使我们觉得，自己不配获得爱与归属感。但这并不代表，我们内心不渴望，相反地，可能更强烈。
特别是，还身具女性这一特点的残障女性们。这个世界对女性的物化与审视，让我们陷入更深的自我责备之中。
然而，真正导致这一切的，不是我们的身体，而是人们的定见。
今天，我们就来和一位残障女性一起，找到残障女性"性感"的秘密，挣脱枷锁！
当然，看完视频，别真当秘密藏起来，请一定让更多人知道！
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woman with a disability share dating experience.
残障女性性感的秘密
Hallie Randall：People with disabilities have to be creative. In this world, it is not always accessible. That goes for sex too.
残障人需要有创造力，因为这个世界，不总是无障碍的，在性这个方面也是如此。
旁白：The topic of people with disabilities and sex, love, and dating is not always talked about. especially outside the disability community，when it is，the narratives often rely on stereotypes, or group extremely different experiences together. Some narratives often focus on challenges or argue, It is near impossible for people with disabilities, to find love or sexual partners.
残障人的性、爱、约会这些话题，很少有机会讨论, 更没机会与残障社群之外的人一起探讨。当真的谈到这些话题时，人们只是根据刻板印象来想象，或者将截然不同的感受混为一谈，话题不自觉地就会聚焦到困难和矛盾上。在他们看来，残障人想找到真爱或性伴侣，几乎不可能。
Melissa prax：What are some of the other myths you've seen about sexuality and people with disabilities?
关于残障与性，你还遇到过哪些荒诞的看法？
Hallie Randall：We can't do everything，but we can and more. as a woman with a disability, like, they still want to feel sexy.
有人觉得我们什么都做不了, 但我们能做的，比他们想象得要多的多, 残障女性也想变得性感。
Melissa prax：How do you kind of go out and feel sexy?
你是如何让自己变得性感的呢？
Hallie Randall：Like certain outfits or bubble baths，with like, you know, the little foofoo stuff
比如，穿上性感的衣服，或者，洗一个泡泡浴，诸如此类的小玩意儿，你喜欢就好。
Hallie Randall：Mom I am ready! See I would do it but my hands are not that steady.
"妈妈我准备好了！"（说话期间母亲来到身边为哈莉兰德尔画眼影）你看，我也想化个漂亮的妆，但我的手不稳。
旁白：Hallie Randall represents only one experience, but it's one that proves: navigating the dating scene as a woman, with or without a disability is trick. and can sometimes be demeaning.
哈莉兰德尔的经历是个例，但从中可以看出：无论你是否残障，对于一位女士来说，想要自如地把握一场约会都不是一件容易的事，有些时候，也许还会为此变得卑微。
Hallie Randall：This one guy he liked to help me like I'm a little slug，I am just like, no. I am just a woman like I have needs.，I mean like right now，I am doing with this one guy，I met him at the gym.
那个家伙认为我行动迟缓，需要特殊对待, 我觉得，这样不好！我也是女人，我也有情感上的需求。比如现在，我正准备约见的这个小伙子，我和他是在体育馆认识的。
Melissa prax：He kind of made a move on you?
他主动和你互动了吗？
Hallie Randall：Yes, we were walking out like beside each other, and we just started talking.
是的，我们当时一起走着，接着就开始聊天。
旁白： for Randall who raps its way to share her experiences，creative inspiration can even come from her dating life.
兰德尔用说唱的方式来分享她的经历，对她来说，创作灵感甚至可以来源于约会经历。
Hallie Randall：Making a song，about how I met this guy，and turns out he has a girlfriend. So I am not second place.
我创作了一首歌，歌词内容是，我和一个小伙子相遇了，然后发现他已经有女朋友了，当然，我不想成为"备胎"。
旁白：at tonight's performance，Randall has a little something else planned.
在今晚的演出上，兰德尔又为另一件事花起小心思。
Hallie Randall：I am gonna be doing so focus. It's probably my favorite project.
我正全力以赴，为我喜欢的一个节目做准备。
Melissa prax：What is it about?
是关于什么的节目呢？
Hallie Randall：It's just about how even though I have a disability, like, I can still do things. I was just tired of like everyone thing and like, I couldn't achieve my dreams because of what happened to me. I am like it's gonna take a lot more than a silly lateral stroke to stop me. I feel like I'm supposed to be up there sharing my story. I mean I'm me and accept me if you don't like me. I am just sitting at a wheelchair but I am still me.
它是说：尽管我身有残障，我也可以做很多事情, 因为身有残障，所以就不能实现自己的梦想。"我已经受够了人们这样的说法。区区一次侧脑中风可没办法阻止我，我觉得我就应该站在舞台上分享我自己的故事，我就是我，独一无二的烟火。即使不喜欢我，但也请尊重我。我只是坐在轮椅上，但我还是我自己。
Hallie Randall：I'mRemy .I can do it, I am able, I can do it. I am able.
（歌词）我是Remy,我能做到，我可以，我能做到，我可以。
Hallie Randall：It is highly back around to Friday night.
（歌词）周五晚上就快要到啦!
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致谢
翻译：缓行小天使、Florence Mai
制作支持：彬华
配音：余琪、袁艺、韩婧莹
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